West Mercia Women’s Aid
Support for Men
“You have given me back some of my confidence and an ability to look rationally at situations that before were too traumatic to think upon.”
Survivor
Resources for Men
Information on a wide range of organisations, services and apps that can provide specialist help and support can be found on our Resources Page.

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Support for Men
How can you help me?
At West Mercia Women’s Aid we believe that every person has the right to live their lives free from abuse. Although we predominately work with women affected by domestic abuse we also have specialist services & support for men across Herefordshire and Worcestershire. Our Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVAs) also work with men across the whole of West Mercia.
Am I being abused?
Domestic Abuse is not just about using physical force or seeing bruises that are visible; it is about exerting power and control over another person through the use of fear, manipulation, isolation and intimidation. Find out more here about the different types of behaviours that can be found in abusive relationships.
What is an IDVA?
Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVAs) work with men affected by domestic abuse throughout West Mercia. WMWA’s IDVAs are specialist ‘safety workers’ who provide advice and support through the legal, civil and court processes for those who are at high risk of harm from domestic abuse. IDVAs also work closely with local hospitals. For more information on how our IDVAs can support you please view our IDVA page.
Support for men in Herefordshire
The men’s domestic abuse service offers a bespoke programme of one-to-one support for men affected by domestic abuse. We help with any issues that you are experiencing due to current domestic abuse, or have because of domestic abuse in a previous relationship. Our team can refer you to the local specialist support worker if you need more than listening support and advice.
Support for men in Worcestershire
WMWA works in conjunction with Rooftop Housing Association to provide a support service for men affected by domestic abuse in Worcestershire. The service provides advice and support, with a bespoke group programme for men. Rooftop also offers a tailored programme of one-to-one support, helping with any issues experienced due to current domestic abuse, or because of domestic abuse in a previous relationship.
Male Domestic Abuse Helpline
You can contact a specialist trained domestic abuse worker via our helpline. They can offer advice and bespoke support to men who are experiencing, or have experienced, domestic abuse. They can also refer you to the local specialist support worker if you need more than listening support and advice.
Male Domestic Abuse Helpline 0800 014 9082, available 24hrs daily.
Looking for help?
Call 0800 014 9082
Free and confidential, available 24 hours
We also have Livechat available from 9am until 9pm, Monday to Friday for those who want to contact helpline silently or who prefer to text rather than talk.
If you are in immediate danger please call 999